One of the most traumatic things that can happen to a person is to have a
breakup with the one that you love. Breakups occur every minute and
every hour of the day. They are nothing new in any society. That's all
well and good but what happens if you are the one going through the pain
of a breakup? You are probably wondering what the best ways to mend a
broken heart are.
There are many ways to mend a broken heart. Some will work better for
you than others. You'll need to find the one method that works best for
you because of your interests, personality, or lifestyle.
1) Find a cause. There's nothing like a worthy cause to occupy your
mind and your time. This is why it's such an effective method for
getting over and recovering from a broken heart. If you fill your every
spare moment with thoughts and actions dedicated to helping your cause
(children's hospital, favorite charity, habitat for humanity, and
countless other worthy causes) you'll find less of your time is devoted
to thinking about your broken heart or worrying about what your ex is
doing, who your ex is with, and why your ex left.
2) Become your
own cause. If there isn't a cause out there that really interests you
become your own project. What area of your life can you improve? Would
you like to go back to school? How about traveling to see the world?
Want to get into shape? Learn a new skill? You can do all of these
things now without worry over what your ex will think. Do them for you.
3)
Start dating again. Love is a great healer. It makes sense that it is
also one of the more effective ways to mend a broken heart. Allow
yourself to love again and you'll enjoy many rewards. Avoid rebound
relationships (relationships that are intense but brief because they go
too far too fast) but open your heart so that you can find love again
when you're ready.
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