Have you ever felt drained after being around a certain person? Maybe you feel like you're walking on eggshells
trying to cater to their ever-changing mood. Or for the most part, you
have to go out of your way to explain your actions to them so they can
understand your good intentions. Maybe they say they understand how you
feel, but yet, their actions are contradicting. Whether or not their
behavior is deliberate, bottom line is: you feel drained when you have
to deal with them. Could it be that this relationship requires more care and maintenance than you're prepared to give?
Recognize that regardless of how long you've been together, if it's an unhealthy relationship, it can be a kind of toxic in your life; it can be a roadblock in your life preventing you from moving ahead to where you want to go. And if you allow it to continue, your mood will suffer in a way that not only sacrifices your own well-being, but also the well-being of others around you.
It can be hard to part ways with a friend or a partner, even when their behavior warrants it. While betrayal or seemingly deliberate attempts to be hurtful are clear signals that it's time to move on, sometimes the signal of the end of a relationship isn't that obvious. Furthermore, sometimes an unhealthy relationship can brew from two people who truly want to be kind to one another, but somehow along the way, they ended up on different pages; they don't agree with each other, and tension rises. This can be just as unhealthy. So what do you do? I guess this is where you have to use your better judgement...
If after a fair amount of consideration, you feel strongly about maintaining a relationship with this person, then be assertive and communicate honestly with them about what is working and not working for you in the relationship. Give it your all and kindly speak your truth, and allow them to do the same. And after this, if you still don't see any progress, at least you know you did your best and you wouldn't have left much room for regrets with "I should have" or "I could have."
Leaving behind an unhealthy relationship is one of the best things you can do for your well-being, as you make room for more positive, nurturing people to enter your life. As they say: When one door closes, only then can another door open...
In life, we'll all inevitably experience unhealthy relationships that challenge our minds and hearts so we can learn and grow. So learn from it, grow from it. But recognize when it is time to say goodbye. As you move forward in life, continue to give that which you seek. If you want relationships that enhance your life, help you to be your best, and encourage your dreams, then, offer this kind of friendship to another person. You'll get out of life what you put into it...always.
Recognize that regardless of how long you've been together, if it's an unhealthy relationship, it can be a kind of toxic in your life; it can be a roadblock in your life preventing you from moving ahead to where you want to go. And if you allow it to continue, your mood will suffer in a way that not only sacrifices your own well-being, but also the well-being of others around you.
It can be hard to part ways with a friend or a partner, even when their behavior warrants it. While betrayal or seemingly deliberate attempts to be hurtful are clear signals that it's time to move on, sometimes the signal of the end of a relationship isn't that obvious. Furthermore, sometimes an unhealthy relationship can brew from two people who truly want to be kind to one another, but somehow along the way, they ended up on different pages; they don't agree with each other, and tension rises. This can be just as unhealthy. So what do you do? I guess this is where you have to use your better judgement...
If after a fair amount of consideration, you feel strongly about maintaining a relationship with this person, then be assertive and communicate honestly with them about what is working and not working for you in the relationship. Give it your all and kindly speak your truth, and allow them to do the same. And after this, if you still don't see any progress, at least you know you did your best and you wouldn't have left much room for regrets with "I should have" or "I could have."
Leaving behind an unhealthy relationship is one of the best things you can do for your well-being, as you make room for more positive, nurturing people to enter your life. As they say: When one door closes, only then can another door open...
In life, we'll all inevitably experience unhealthy relationships that challenge our minds and hearts so we can learn and grow. So learn from it, grow from it. But recognize when it is time to say goodbye. As you move forward in life, continue to give that which you seek. If you want relationships that enhance your life, help you to be your best, and encourage your dreams, then, offer this kind of friendship to another person. You'll get out of life what you put into it...always.
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