Take These Steps To Get Your Ex Back after He Dumped You

 

When your boyfriend dumps you, but says he still loves you, it can cause you a lot of confusion. You want to ask him if he loves you, why doesn't he want to be with you. But, you decide to let things stay as they are and see what happens. The only thing that will happen is, you will lose him for good. You had better take these steps to get your ex back now.

When your boyfriend dumps you, but says he still loves you, you need to listen closer to what he is saying. There is a lot of difference between saying I love you and saying I am in love with you. You can love a close friend or a parent, but you are not in love with them. Some men use this tactic for a reason. They figure you won't see the difference and they can keep you on a string by using the words in that manner.

This might be hard to take, but the sooner you face fact, the sooner you can get on with your life. Your ex boyfriend is planning on having you as a backup girlfriend. This will allow him to go out, have a good time and date other women. If nothing works out he will have you to rely on. This makes for a great setup for him, but a bad one for you.

Your ex boyfriend will call you late at night and you will be thrilled. He might tell you he couldn't sleep without talking to you, but in reality he will be making sure you are still sitting around home. He might even take you on an occasional date, but it won't be anywhere that he is likely to run into his friends. This will just be to keep you on that string in case he needs you.

You can't let this continue if you really love the guy because you are headed for nothing but heartbreak. Sooner or later he will run into a woman, that he can't love and leave. When that time comes he will dump you for good and you will be left with nothing but lost time. If you want to get your ex back, take these steps now.

First of all you have to dump your ex boyfriend. You might be afraid to do this because you are afraid of losing him for good. Well, that can't happen because you have already lost him. You have to either get him back or let him go. You can't let him use you in this way. The next time he calls you, tell him you have something important to tell him and ask him to meet you.

When you meet him, look him in the eyes and say you appreciate his friendship, but you think it is time you moved on. This will hit him like a truck and his attitude toward you will change drastically. He was thinking he was in control, but suddenly you are the one in control. He will try to tell you he loves you, but don't fall for it again. Just wish him well and leave.

The reason this will bring him back begging is, you are taking away what he thought he had. Men always want what they think has been taken from them and your ex boyfriend will soon be telling you he is in love with you again.