You have taken the sacred vows, "FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE" to be together forever. But
you've seen the video, and you're 100% percent sure that was him with
another woman. What do you do?
A lot of women would feel you have to choose any of 3 decisions:
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Divorcing Your Husband
Divorcing your life partner - when he has been caught on video - seems like the only option, at least initially. If you throw your cheating husband out, he would have to pay for his indiscretions, and this sends a message that your emotions are not to be played with.
Admittedly, kicking him out may seem like a very easy thing to do because he did you wrong. But, when you double check, it's hard to make such a big decision almost impulsively. Both of you took vows to dedicate your lives for each other and to each other, to look out for each other - to be with each other during good times and not so good times. So... even though you are extremely hurt by what he's done, you're not sure you can just give up on what's left of the marriage (if there is anything left).
If you choose to divorce him, make sure that you really want to take this decision. You may have a million questions to ask him - and the right time to ask is now, since these answers would determine the future quality of your relationship. Truthfully, your questions may never get answered if you don't talk to him now before it's too late.
Furthermore, communication has always been key to maintaining harmony in a relationship, and his infidelity is a big sign that there has been a large communication gap between the two of you. If, after talking it out completely with him, and nothing good is still coming out of it, it is only then that you consider a permanent separation.
Forgiving Him
Forgive him and move on? This is more difficult to do, especially at the onset of finding out about his infidelity. You may not want to let your husband for several reasons - maybe you cannot provide for yourself, or you simply can't imagine yourself living alone.
If these are your answers, then you are in trouble. With these answers as your reasons, you will get nothing in return, but depression. Even though it isn't right for a husband to blatantly cheat on his wife, she should never put herself in a financially dependent position.
If you so dearly want to forgive him, and continue your lives together, you have to understand why he acted that way, and why you want him back. I once again encourage communication. You have to understand why he cheated on you. If there's something unsatisfactory in your marriage, then you need to take responsibility to help fix it. But if he's a blatant cheating idiot, you need to step and tell him to kick that BS elsewhere!
A lot of women would feel you have to choose any of 3 decisions:
- Throw Him out of the house and divorce him.
- Forgive Him and move on.
- Run away from the issue and never bring it up.
READ MORE: Want to know if your Man is a Cheating Liar. Click Here
Divorcing Your Husband
Divorcing your life partner - when he has been caught on video - seems like the only option, at least initially. If you throw your cheating husband out, he would have to pay for his indiscretions, and this sends a message that your emotions are not to be played with.
Admittedly, kicking him out may seem like a very easy thing to do because he did you wrong. But, when you double check, it's hard to make such a big decision almost impulsively. Both of you took vows to dedicate your lives for each other and to each other, to look out for each other - to be with each other during good times and not so good times. So... even though you are extremely hurt by what he's done, you're not sure you can just give up on what's left of the marriage (if there is anything left).
If you choose to divorce him, make sure that you really want to take this decision. You may have a million questions to ask him - and the right time to ask is now, since these answers would determine the future quality of your relationship. Truthfully, your questions may never get answered if you don't talk to him now before it's too late.
Furthermore, communication has always been key to maintaining harmony in a relationship, and his infidelity is a big sign that there has been a large communication gap between the two of you. If, after talking it out completely with him, and nothing good is still coming out of it, it is only then that you consider a permanent separation.
Forgiving Him
Forgive him and move on? This is more difficult to do, especially at the onset of finding out about his infidelity. You may not want to let your husband for several reasons - maybe you cannot provide for yourself, or you simply can't imagine yourself living alone.
If these are your answers, then you are in trouble. With these answers as your reasons, you will get nothing in return, but depression. Even though it isn't right for a husband to blatantly cheat on his wife, she should never put herself in a financially dependent position.
If you so dearly want to forgive him, and continue your lives together, you have to understand why he acted that way, and why you want him back. I once again encourage communication. You have to understand why he cheated on you. If there's something unsatisfactory in your marriage, then you need to take responsibility to help fix it. But if he's a blatant cheating idiot, you need to step and tell him to kick that BS elsewhere!
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